Before you decide to move, it is important to do a little self-reflection and homework on where you are going. Here is a checklist of things to think about before that “For Sale” sign goes up in your yard.
Do you know people where you’re going?
Do you, your friends or your family have friends there? Get the story about the place from someone who actually lives there. Ask what they love about the place and what they wish was different.
Can you follow your passions there?
Before you move, make sure that you’ll have access to the things that are important to you. Whether it be the arts, sports, outdoor activities, or something entirely different, make sure the area supports your passion. If you have the flexibility to go anywhere in the world to learn and apply your craft, go where you can be your best.
Are you moving toward or away?
This is subtle, but immensely important. If there’s an underlying fundamental problem with you, your job, the way you work with people or your relationships, moving away instead of dealing with the real issues won’t solve anything. In fact it will just postpone you having to deal with them. Be honest with yourself. Is this a move toward something or are you running away?
Are you looking for an adventure?
Sometimes we feel the need to mix things up. Perhaps you’re living in the same town where you were born, and you just want to try something new. Maybe you’re in your 20s and ready for an adventure. As someone that has moved our family several times, I can tell you that moving isn’t easy with a new home, new friends, and new job. That’s a lot of new all at once. Do you want the adventure?
Are you ready to be a trailing spouse?
In many situations, one part of a couple is offered an opportunity in a new location, while the other is the trailing spouse. He or she may have to look for a new job, new house, new friends, and new schools for the children. Ideally, if this is a job-related move, the company that moved you will help you find a place to live and get settled. If not, there will be a lot for that trailing spouse to manage: be honest with yourself and your spouse about what you’re signing up for when you’re moving for your partner’s job, and whether you’re up for it.
Could this significantly improve the quality of your life?
Are there opportunities for you and your family that don’t exist where you currently live? Alternatively, are there better ways for you to spend your leisure time where you are moving than where you are at today? Are there better services to take care of any unique needs you may have? Will you be able to create a better life in the new location? Many times the answer to all of the above is a resounding, “Yes!” However, make sure you ask yourselves the questions before you move forward.
I hope this was helpful. As always, contact me with any questions. I am happy to help you with any move you may have coming.